Discussion about this post

User's avatar
Susan T. Mahler, MD's avatar

I had the same experience with my Les Havens interview: he beckoned me in with such warmth and then said, "so...what do you WANT?" He pulled you in and put you off your guard in the same breath.

He told us to fire our supervisors, and I also saw him interview a patient, with his "counter-paranoid position." Using his office to see patients (he told us not to borrow his books, but keep them) was like channeling some higher power.

The most memorable thing he said to me, among many memorable things, was when I asked what to do in therapy when I didn't know what to say.

"Wait."

Richard Moldawsky's avatar

I think it's really tough for psychiatrists who were not trained and grounded in psychodynamic concepts to add them on later in a way that doesn't feel awkward or forced, even with the best of intentions. The stated or implied ideas that there either really isn't time for that kind of conversation, or that the 'payoff' is not there, leads to more problems are subtle forms of bad treatment. I am so grateful that I was trained at a time (late 70's) when integration of meds with therapy (or just the MD-patient relationship) was developing.

The import of the meaning of meds ( and everything else) is truly at the center of this topic, and I can recall reading or hearing from Havens, Arieti, Yalom, Searles, Frankl, and many others who drilled into me that this matters so much.

Also, the idea that resistance is not only normal, but to be expected by both prescriber and pill-taker is one I've gotten a lot of mileage from. Telling patients that they should PLAN to have mixed feelings about the pills ( and me and therapy) normalizes it and cuts down on guilt or shame. it's gratifying to hear a patient being 'resistant' and then my saying, "good, of course, let's talk" - and it makes the process curiously fun.

I think the psychiatry profession has little awareness of how such things feed into the anger and vitriol of the anti psychiatry voices. The intensity of their feelings should not keep us from hearing their messages and looking in the mirror. It'd be wrong to dismiss those voices as being...resistant

6 more comments...

No posts

Ready for more?