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Susan T. Mahler, MD's avatar

I had the same experience with my Les Havens interview: he beckoned me in with such warmth and then said, "so...what do you WANT?" He pulled you in and put you off your guard in the same breath.

He told us to fire our supervisors, and I also saw him interview a patient, with his "counter-paranoid position." Using his office to see patients (he told us not to borrow his books, but keep them) was like channeling some higher power.

The most memorable thing he said to me, among many memorable things, was when I asked what to do in therapy when I didn't know what to say.

"Wait."

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