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Contextualizing the way we respond to suffering does not happen reflexively, in part probably because the idea outsourcing our response to professionals is so pervasive, which is why essays like this one are so important. With a broader perspective entering public discourse, a perspective that allows us to more explicitly define the scope of various institutions and alternatives to them, perhaps we will be able to intentionally understand how we can awaken and harness the capacity we all have for empathy and encouragement to support one another.

If people are taught from a young age about the range of experiences that come with being human, then at least one dimension of suffering can be decreased as people feel less isolated and ashamed about an experience that is simply part of being human. There can be so much panic around a person having something wrong with them that I believe people can lose sight of the often comparatively minor significance of an aspect of their lives they are having difficulty with that gets blown out of proportion once it is assigned to realm of professions.

Because the current model does have so much legitimacy (despite the critiques), there does not seem to be as much room for other perspectives for how to respond to human suffering, especially when it comes to the kind that does not involve extreme situations which understandably can be more difficult for a lay person to manage. One of the reasons that the Power Threat Meaning Framework seems to be so important is that it does attempt bring in a broader perspective than the current approach and attempts to give voice to people outside the institutions historically assigned as the catch basin for problems that people would rather push away.

I made one failed attempt to start something called the mutual encouragement society as a forum for connecting people who would like to discuss the things that we typically assign to institutions (why we respond the way we do to our experiences and ways we can do so that will help us achieve the goals we have for ourselves) but in a more equitable structure where both people are vulnerable (not necessarily simultaneously) and where both people make explicit the life experiences they have had that inform their biases and shape their world view. I am not sure how to meet with more success than I did before but perhaps in the future, I will try to get it going again.

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