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Ellen Horovitz's avatar

This is so salient to the 4th edition of the book I am editing.

Quoted you "“When patients exhibit a desire for a particular diagnosis during a clinical interaction, clinicians should be sure to make space to explore the role that diagnosis would play for the patient, potentially touching on the mechanisms we lay out here to determine whether they apply to the patient’s interest in diagnosis.” (p.4)".

Thank you again for such an important contribution.

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Dennis Nehrenheim M.Sc.'s avatar

Interesting. Thx for sharing! This piece reminds me a lot of a section in my book "Scale-Smart" where I use the idea of a "Rumpelstiltskin effect" a bit more generally, but essentially with the same overarching theme: name it to tame it!

Here's the book section:

» The first core operation on mental matter is conceptualizing—or, in a phrase, name it to tame it. Much like in the fairy tale Rumpelstiltskin, the moment we give something a name, we begin to gain power over it. Until then, it stays fuzzy, slippery, lurking at the edges of thought. But once named, a concept crystallizes. It becomes a unit you can see, hold, think about—and, crucially, work with. To conceptualize is to give form to the formless. It’s the act of shaping mental mist into a defined object. And the tool we use for that is language. A name—no matter how arbitrary—acts like a handle. Without a handle, an idea might still exist, but it’s hard to pick up, turn over, or connect to anything else. With a handle, everything changes. Now you can grasp the idea. Move it. Share it. Build on it. This isn’t just a poetic metaphor. Research in cognitive science, linguistics, and psychology confirms a simple truth: naming is one of the most powerful acts the mind can perform. When you give something a name—be it an emotion, a challenge, or a recurring pattern—you’re not just labeling it. You’re mapping it into your inner world. You lift it to become a citizen in your personal mental ecology. In that sense, conceptualizing is how our World 2 carves meaning out of the chaos of World 1. Your brain doesn’t just absorb information—it interprets it through concepts. And concepts are made up of categories, distinctions, and—crucially—names.[^wittgenstein] Say you’re concerned about your weight, your back aches, and you’ve caught a cold. When you label this cluster “unhealthy,” you compress a web of sensations into a single idea: health. That unit becomes easier to monitor, talk about, and influence. Psychologists call this a chunk.[^miller] Linguists call it a signifier.[^saussure] Neuroscientists might call it a label that rewires perception by engaging regulatory circuits in the brain.[^lieberman] In every case, the function is the same: to make something handleable. That’s why naming an emotion—“anxiety,” “resentment,” “anticipation”—can reduce its grip. Studies show that labeling feelings calms the amygdala and activates the prefrontal cortex.[^lieberman] It’s like naming the monster in the dark: it doesn’t vanish, but it becomes less terrifying. Once you can name what you’re feeling, you’ve already begun to work with it.

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