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This explanation seems to me a little overwrought and out of date. Maybe a decade ago the people seeking diagnosis were the sorts of people you describe, but my recent observation is that the diagnosis has become increasingly popular among strikingly charismatic and, in many cases, very attractive young women, and I don’t just mean on TikTok. The cultural centre of gravity is shifting.

The key to seeing what is going on memetically is realising that the meme is not just popular among those seeking an autism diagnosis. It is overwhelmingly more popular among people not seeking a diagnosis. For every person wanting to be assessed, there are ten who love to say, “I think so-and-so is on the spectrum.” The fact that the meme is even more popular with people who are not experiencing the subjective inner experience is the giveaway: it has become a byword for “unconventional,” something overwhelmingly imposed by others, rather than experienced.

Once you recognise that, you can map it straight onto earlier cultural trends. Whatever is “weird” to one generation of youth becomes “cool” to their younger siblings, and by the next generation it is being manufactured by Hot Topic. We have watched this happen over and over. The genuinely odd outsider artists of the 1970s turn into the cool underground musicians of the 1980s, who turn into the mall goths of the 2000s, who turn into the e-girls of the 2010s. Nerd culture follows the same trajectory: trainspotting anoraks to “geek is chic” to Marvel going mainstream to very attractive people doing cosplay. It is the same memetic conveyor belt every time.

Autism, in its pop-cultural version, is following the same trajectory. Traits once interpreted as awkward or eccentric get rebranded as quirky, intense, interesting, cool. Once that happens, the meme stops mapping onto autism and starts mapping onto whatever the culture currently finds appealingly unconventional.

The other historical precedent is neurasthenia, which may have started life as a descriptor for real neuropathic disease but quickly became a wastepaper basket for attractive socialites with a neurotic personality and a love of spa treatments.

It is also no coincidence to me that these are the same types of people who often like fortune telling and star signs. To my mind the effect of modern diagnosis often acts like the former, to the extraordinary debasement of psychiatry, which apparently cannot remember anything beyond what it had for breakfast this morning.

Here is another point. Just as true melancholics never used to complain of depression, so too, once upon a time, it was rare to hear high-functioning people living with autism complain, at least not with great accuracy, about social anxiety. For the most part, they were oblivious and at best distressed out of confusion. They lacked insight into their social deficits and, while lonely, had little real idea of what the issue was. Today, we are seeing something completely different: emotionally intelligent people frequently with above average social skills mistaking the commensurate anxiety that often accompanies self-awareness for deficit. They notice people sometimes treat them as weird, first because their charisma makes them a target for bullying, and second because most people of average social abilities coast through life almost as blindly as autistic people.

The neurotic and neuroasthenic on otherhand "has a keen insight into his condition, and tends to exaggerate his symptoms, but the paretic has little or no insight, or, if present, he rather minimizes than exaggerates his symptoms.".

I think the real issue is that a lot of clinicians just aren't cool enough to see what is going on.

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