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This is such a fascinating discussion. One thing that I wonder about as a clinical counselor is about *core shame* as a variable. Those with ADHD diagnosis seem to have more core shame (“Something is wrong with me”) and I wonder if this is tied to genetic brain sensitivity (ie, a brain that is predisposed to emotional sensitivity?) In the ADHD self help literature for women, healing the shame underneath the dysfunction seems to be a big emphasis, and in my experience, it really seems to help decrease the severity of the symptoms. Is shame a “stickier” experience for a genetically sensitive brain? I guess I'm wondering: do stimulants present us with a drug that helps alleviate shame through increased feelings of self-efficacy and the feeling that “now my brain is like normal people’s brains?” If a child in the woods has ADHD but never has an environment that creates any friction for shame to take root, would the symptoms even express themselves at all? In other words, how much of this is environmental and as a result of a brain that genetically tilts towards sensitivity/shame? How many of these individuals have internalized the belief “Something is wrong with me” and the stimulants give them relief through counter evidence (“I can do things in the manner in which I perceive that normal people can?”)?

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